Get Over Your Fears
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We humans are amazing. We can just imagine things and feel fear in response to the mental images. And I'm sure you know exactly what the problem is with this... it can immobilize you at critical times.
Have you ever seen a woman that you'd like to meet, but you just couldn't walk over and start talking to her?
No, it's never happened to me, either. What was the problem? Usually, it's fear.
Fear that she'll get upset, or fear that she'll have a boyfriend... or fear that she'll embarrass you in front of others... or fear that you won't know what to say to her...
And, of course, when you feel that strong fear emotion, it just freezes you and makes you totally ineffective.
So what's the solution?
Well, there are several ways to overcome fears.
One way is to do the thing you fear. If you do the thing that you fear, and see that nothing bad will happen, then you eventually overcome it and become programmed not to feel fear anymore.
For instance, if you're afraid to approach women and talk to them, just DO IT. Go talk to 50 women in the next week and see that most of them will respond positively to you (if you don't act like a dumb-ass, that is).
Other ways include:
-Understanding the dynamics of male/female interactions better than most women do.
-Learning how to approach women using the same types of words and body language that the masters use.
-Learning how to use props or other devices to get a woman's attention without having to "approach" her directly.
-Learning mental techniques to overcome fears or "reset" your emotions instantly, anytime you'd like (this is one of my personal favorites).
-Using mental preparation to be completely ready for anything that might happen.
I have spent a lot of time in my own personal life learning about and figuring out how to get past fears and other psychological obstacles with women. And I teach several concepts and guided exercises specifically for overcoming fear, programming yourself for success, and programming your mind to succeed with women.
* David DeAngelo is an American entrepreneur, author and dating advisor. He is the founder of Double Your Dating, a company providing dating advice to men and women. DeAngelo is one of the world's most recognized names in the dating industry, offering downloadable e-books, audio CD and training DVDs to singles looking to improve their social skills. He can be found at www.doubleyourdating.com.
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