Is She Interested?
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So here's a dating tip for you to try:
"Mess with" them.
- Tease.
- Bust on.
- Be difficult.
Why?
Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:
- 1) You could care less what she thinks of you.
- 2) You're a fun person.
- 3) You're unpredictable.
- 4) You're a bit of a "wild card"
- 5) You GET IT.
Now, you might be shaking your head right now and saying "That's doesn't make any sense. Why would a woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her instead of being nice?".
That's a good question.
But for now, take the hand that you slapped yourself with earlier, and slap yourself again.
Good.
I want you to STOP following your "be nice and kiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman, and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.
Make fun of something.
Go to hand her something, then pull it away at the last second.
Shake your head in despair and tell her that she's screwing up her chances with you.
Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn around and walk away before she can respond to your face.
Can ya feel me, dog?
Now the good stuff...
HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED
Well this is what you were looking for, so here it is...
I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula for knowing whether or not a woman is interested in you.
Here it is:
1) You engage her.2) She engages you back.
Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough that I can finish. You can clap later.
I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but stay with me here.
If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks me how many are in my party, and I answer with "Well, there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke, then IT'S ON!
If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey, watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least a foot of room..." in a serious tone of voice... and she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me then back again playfully, then IT'S ON!
If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine rack, and I ask her "What's with that huge purse of yours? You got a dog in there or something?" and she starts laughing and making excuses, then IT'S ON!
In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:
1) Stop looking around for signals from women that they're "interested" in you.
2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is interested in you.
3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that IT'S ON!
As long as you use how she's responding to what you do as your gauge, then you'll have a much easier time spotting the "she wants me" clues...
Because YOU are the one CAUSING THEM..
* David DeAngelo is an American entrepreneur, author and dating advisor. He is the founder of Double Your Dating, a company providing dating advice to men and women. DeAngelo is one of the world's most recognized names in the dating industry, offering downloadable e-books, audio CD and training DVDs to singles looking to improve their social skills. He can be found at www.doubleyourdating.com.
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