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Fashion Tips For Women

Fashion sparks attraction and passion

By Neal Talbot, All-Star contributor
Updated: 1:38PM, March 17, 2008

Most women have a passion for fashion. They grow up playing dress-up with their mothers. They spend their childhood dressing Barbie's in the latest fashions. And once they get to dress themselves, women can agonize for hours putting together the perfect outfit.

Yet millions of women are still making simple style errors. Some are even making major fashion faux pas. It's time that ends. It's time women remind men why the female form has been worshiped for centuries. It's time women look their absolute best.

The fashion industry is driven by women. It offers women more styles, sizes, colors, and choice, than men could ever dream of. But with more options come more opportunities to make mistakes. It's important you learn what clothes will make you look most attractive. That you find shapes, cuts, styles and colors that are both flattering and fashionable.

A key to looking great is avoiding the three most common style errors plaguing women today: dressing a size or two too small, dressing a size or two too large, and dressing too sexy.

Wearing clothes that are too small does the opposite of what you're hoping. It makes you look heavier than you are and shows everything you want to hide. Clothes that are too large, eliminate your curves and thus your sexuality. And dressing too sexy can make you look desperate for attention and less desirable to men.

The secret to looking great is dressing for your body type. So get to know your body. Its shapes and curves. What features you want to draw attraction to and away form. And toss away the belief every woman has to be built like a runway model. Few men are built like runway models, so why should you have to be?

Focus instead on finding comfortable clothes that accentuate your personality and curves. Below are a host of tips from the experts at All-Star Dating Tips to help you do exactly that. So let's start developing your passion for fashion.

Develop a signature style
To develop a signature style you're going to have to ask yourself some hard questions. Are your clothes projecting the right message? Do your clothes match your personality? Do your clothes make you visually memorable? A signature style should do each. You should look great, project your personality and catch the eye.

It can be difficult to come up with a signature style from scratch so don't hesitate to imitate a look. There's no shame in making Angelina Jolie's style your own. Just make sure the look fits your personality. Use Jolie's style as a base and slowly incorporate into it your personal fashion preferences.

Relying on accessories such as sunglasses, ties, necklaces and socks, is a safe and inexpensive way to start creating your signature style. So is adding new colors and fabrics to your wardrobe. Use them to draw attention to all your best features. Feel free to alter your signature style as you grow more confident.

Colors of Invisibility
The dating world is filled with sameness. Don't just fade into the bland background. Stand your ground and show everyone that you're alive. Go bright. Go bold. Be visually memorable. Be a peacock in a crowd of chickens. It will dramatically improve your chance of being noticed by others.

Use bright colors to separate yourself from all the other competitors. Lively colors project positivity, radiate energy and ooze confidence. Your color choices can say a lot about you - so make sure they're sending the right message.

Avoid grey, brown and any dull or light colors. They are the colors of invisibility. These colors act as social camouflage - ensuring no one will notice you. They also scream, 'I have no confidence.' Instead, think in red, white, blue, black, yellow, orange, purple and pink.

Know you body type
Whether you're tall or short, thick or thin, stocky or lean, it's important you understand what types of clothes accent your most desirable features best... along with which clothes best hide your undesirable features. To do this, you will have to get to know your body type. This usually involves asking for a trained professional's fashion opinion.

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Fashion sparks attraction
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Women who pay attention to fashion do better in the dating world and workplace.

FASHION TIPS
Make sure your clothes fit properly

The shirt may look amazing on the mannequin in the window, but if it doesn't look good on you - it doesn't matter. Women who don't take the time to learn what clothes best fit their body type do themselves a huge disservice. Because they buy clothes that are too small or too large. Each which can add the appearance of another 15 pounds to their frame.

- AllStarDatingTips.com


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