Great Dating Role Models
Keep your eye on successful singles
By Lance Mason, All-Star contributor
Updated: 1:39PM, October 1, 2008
The next time you go out, find a guy who's doing pretty good with women.
You'll know him. He'll be the guy dressed a little more, well, eccentrically, than everyone else.
Maybe he's scanning the room, or maybe he's talking real excitedly to a bunch of girls until he starts to makeout with one on the dance floor.
You'll find one of these guys in every club. When you see him, go up to him and ask him what he did.
He'll probably start telling you in great detail all the things he said, did and didn't do to attract the girl.
Now look around and find a guy who's doing GREAT with women.
You'll know him when you see him too. He'll be the guy sitting back, doing next-to- nothing, with a big you-know-what-eating grin on his face, and hot girls all over him.
Now go up to him and ask him what he did.
I bet you my favorite "No Sex Please" t-shirt that his answer is a little different than our buddy, Mr. Working-His-Ass-Off-To-Get- Girls Guy.
His answer will probably be something like this.
"You know, man... you know how it is. I just did my thing."
"Well, what did you say?"
"You know, man, I don't know."
"Yeah, but what did you do?"
"I was just having fun."
"But... I don't get it. Why did it work?"
"C'mon dude. I was just being myself."
Wow.
Here you are really trying to figure out how this guy learned how to get women effortlessly, and he couldn't tell you how he did it anymore than he could tell you how to ride a bike.
Annoying, isn't it? I know.
See, when I got really, really good at getting women, something strange happened.
I got to a point where I was better with girls than anyone else I knew who studied pickup.
But I wasn't the best. I was better than the guys who did OK, but I wasn't better than the guys who were GREAT, but seemed to be doing nothing.
Suddenly, I found myself competing for girls with the guys who had just always been good with girls.
I kept asking these guys these questions, and started paying close attention to what they did and said. And I learned something that totally shocked me.
You know The Natural, the guy who has total choice with women, the guy we all still secretly envy?
He really can't tell you a damn thing about how he gets girls.
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Dating expert Lance Mason takes a look at picking proper dating role models.
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Lance Mason is one of the world's most recognized and respected dating coaches. Mason is the lead-instructor at Pickup 101, a company created to help men improve their social skills and make them more attractive to women. Pickup 101 travells around the globe earning rave reviews at every stop. Mason and the rest of Pickup 101 can be found at www.pickup101.com. - AllStarDatingTips.com |
