Great Dating Role Models
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He just does it, like Nike. It is part of who he is. No lines, no routines, no gimmicks.
Now that sounded impossible. But here it was happening right in front of my eyes.
I slowed down and really thought about it. I thought about movies.
Austin Powers and his mojo.
Johnny Depp and his grin.
George Clooney and his smirk.
I realized that in movies, it's always a just a look, or a move, or the way a man walks across the room that catches a woman's eye. It's not the words... it's the man.
Hollywood has had attraction figured out forever. Want to see what a real cool guy looks like? Go watch some silent films with Valentino. This guy was so smooth that women actually fainted at his funeral.
Fortunately, my obsession with figuring out this Natural Game started to pay off once I started paying attention.
See, the Naturals all have these PERFECT mechanisms of attraction. The way they move, look, touch and talk communicates their attractiveness to women clearer than any super-charged routine ever could.
There are some routines that work really well for some guys. There are some great techniques that work really well on some girls.
But there is nothing that works as well for every guy, and on every girl, as using your body to communicate Natural attractiveness.
You've heard it before... attraction just happens. It is a physical reaction in men, and in women. We don't decide whether or not we are attracted to people -- it just happens.
Think back on the last time you were attracted to a woman. How long did it take you to realize it?
Ten seconds?Five?
One?
I got good news for you. The same process that sparks attraction in you when you see a sexy girl is what sparks attraction in them when they spot a cool guy.
Scientists have proven that it is a purely PHYSICAL reaction, not intellectual or emotional.
Women know they like a guy in their bodies. And the Naturals know how to create that with the way they use their bodies.
Of course, they can't explain it to you any more than David Beckham can explain how to score, or Tiger Woods can tell you how to swing.
And Ron Jeremy can't teach you about... well, you know.
It's in their bodies, but not necessarily in their heads.
Until now. I spent years comparing all I had learned from the pickup arts with the lessons I was learning every day studying and talking to the Naturals, and put it all into our programs at PickUp101.
Now you can learn in days what took me years to master.
* Lance Mason is one of the world's most recognized and respected dating coaches. Mason is the lead-instructor at Pickup 101, a company created to help men improve their social skills and make them more attractive to women. Mason and the rest of Pickup 101 can be found at www.pickup101.com.
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One of the most commonly overlooked cleaning mistakes people make is not dusting. When people see this, your social value drops. Why does something so small matter? Because the person automatically assumes you can't take care of yourself, and will struggle to take care of them. Remember, the little things matter. So make sure your dust doesn't dust your relationship. - AllStarDatingTips.com |
