Finding Attractive Singles
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Dance Class
The dance studio is filled with singles. Athletic, attractive singles. For a small fee singles can learn a skill that makes them more attractive and lands dates at the same time. Right now, the dance craze is so hot people are willing to watch third-rate celebrities strut their stuff on the dance floor. So it's time you learned how to dip, slip and shake those hips.
Most women already understand dancing is the most erotic thing someone can do outside the privacy of their bedroom. Men, it's time to store the excuses and get out onto the dance floor. Think about it, the most popular guys at weddings, parties and nightclubs are always the guys who can dance. It doesn't matter if you're terrible to start. Women will love you just for trying.
Another great part of dance class is the physical contact. Shy singles can use dance class to overcome their fear of physicality. Aggressive singles can use it to their advantage by picking out a partner they're attracted to and having them get used to that physical contact. If they have great chemistry, a date is almost certainly dancing their way.
Get there: Weekday evenings between 7-9 p.m. Weekends noon-10 p.m. Show up at least five to ten minutes before class starts to look for singles to partner up with.
Conversation starter: "You seem fun. Would you like to be my dance partner?" or "If you promise not to grope me, I'll let you be my dance partner," for the more aggressive personality. Both work like a charm.
Airports
For those of you who travel by plane, fasten your seatbelts and place your emotional baggage in the overhead compartment because the airport offers three great ways to meet singles: In the airplane, at the boarding gate and at the flight calendar. Use the captive audience to display your personality, get phone numbers or even punch a ticket to the elusive mile-high club.
On a crowded plane, you need a little luck, as they have to be seated in your aisle. Odds are you're getting a seat beside the cranky baby. But if you do luck out, ask them about their final destination and why they're flying there. If it's somewhere familiar, tease them about what tourist attractions they're after - the art galleries or the sex-shows.
People waiting to get on a plane will usually welcome some conversation. Keep things comfortable and if you're headed to the same city, you may land a spot on their social calendar. Even staring up at the flight calendar is a great place to start fun, pressure-free conversations. If your gates are in the same direction, you can continue talking at the coffee bar.
Get there: A half hour before your flight leaves. It will give to time to scramble if the airline unexpectedly changes gates and gives you some time to find and approach attractive passengers.
Conversation starter: "Where are you headed?" - Is always a safe way to start. "If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would you go?" followed up by "Why?" - While the two of you stand in front of the flight calendar, is riskier but can lead to some amazing conversations.
Street
Nothing says you can't talk to an attractive stranger on the street. I know your parents told you never to talk to strangers, but you never listened to them anyway. Surprisingly, singles who are not in a hurry will often stop and talk with you if you seem interesting and attractive.
Chat with someone as they wait at the crosswalk, sit at the bus stop, or just stop them in the middle of the sidewalk. Nothing shows confidence like stopping someone on the street and having an engaging conversation. If you can master the street approach you'll be able to approach anyone, anywhere.
Use an indirect approach, with a question or opinion opener to show you're interesting - not threatening. Playfully tease them about their answer, and continue the conversation. If they're into the conversation, move them out of the path of foot traffic and continue the conversation.
Get there: Anytime, anywhere. But if you win them over in the evening or weekend, it can turn into an instant date at the nearest coffee shop.
Conversation starter: "Can you give me a quick opinion on..." - While hanging up your cell phone and making eye contact with them. Make everything look spur-of-the-moment.
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Dance class not only gives you another skill, but offers a way to meet singles.
| FINDING SINGLES TIPS |
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Far too few men know how to dance. For some reason men feel it isn't manly. Nothing could be further from the truth. Watch Brad Pitt dance in Mr. & Mrs. Smith. His moves ooze masculinity. It's time men toss this stupid stereotype away and sign up for dance lessons. Once you reap the rewards, you'll wish you'd taken up dancing years ago. - allstardatingtips.com |
