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Aggression gives men two major advantages. The first is that they are more noticeable. An aggressive man isn't afraid to make sure women are aware of his presence and has no fear of approaching. The second is aggressive men are more genuine because they don't fear the other person's view of them. Their words hold more weight because they're not censored - they're from the heart.
Just know there is an art to aggression. An overly-aggressive man will come off abrasive and needy. It should be a muted aggression built on calm and cool. If a man doesn't show he needs the woman's attention, odds are he'll get it.
Learn: To have no fear. Flaunt your fearlessness, ambition and passion. Make people take notice of your presence. Approach women you're interested in. Don't be afraid to step out of the shadows, take up some space and be seen.
Unpredictablity
Women are attracted to men they can't control or predict. They obsess over the men who flirt, give them attention, and then don't feel the need to talk the next day. The lack of availability creates mystery and intrigue. They assume he's seeing other women and will try that much harder to earn more of his time.
A kitten never tires of chasing a string that's just out of reach, but once it has the string in its clutches, it quickly loses interest. Women, to some degree, are like the kitten. They love the thrill of the chase. So don't drop the string guys. Always keep them guessing.
As a relationship evolves into something more serious, a man will have to make himself more available. Yet, he should always maintain an element of unpredictability. If a woman knows there's a chance - no matter how slim - her boyfriend is preparing her a candle-lit bubble-bath at home, odds are she won't be working as many late nights.
Learn: To break from routine. Predictability kills passion. Keep her guessing by giving her different levels of attention, not spending all your time with her, and always taking her to different places. Just being able to daydream about where you're going to take her is exciting for her.
Independent
An independent man doesn't lose touch with his own life, friends and interests when dating a woman. He will view her as a welcome addition to his world, but not his entire world. Independent men have busy lives. They aren't going to clear their entire schedule to accommodate a woman.
Refusing to drop everything for a woman will actually impress her more than clearing your schedule to accommodate her. By keeping dates with friends and continuing hobbies, a man shows that he's loyal, doesn't need to be entertained all the time and has lots options to keep him busy.
By being independent a man shows he's not needy or clingy - a common mistake made by men. It also forces a woman to offer him something more attractive than his other options. This leads to her taking him out to the ball game, instead of the ballet.
Learn: To love your life. Going out with someone new doesn't mean you should stop shooting hoops with the guys or coaching kids at the YMCA. Enjoy a rich life outside of your relationships. The more enjoyable you life is, the more attractive you'll be to women.
Adventurous
Adventurous men a mix use a mix of adrenaline and psychology to attract women. Adventurous activities take women on an emotional roller-coaster, washing away their everyday concerns with fun and excitement. The emotional overload is going to thrill her and cause her to be more care-free.
You don't have to jump out of a plane to be adventurous or exciting. If someone is used to the bowling alley, taking them to the go carts is going to be an adventure. Know their level of adventure. Skiing, rollerblading, skating, hiking, biking and white-water rafting all provide a pulse-pounding good time.
Adventure dates are not only a lot of fun, but they provide you with amazing stories to help attract other dates. An added bonus is your adventure partner usually transfers the excitement of the adventure into seeing you as more exciting, fun and sexy. So feel free to use white water rapids, steep cliffs and open sky to increase her attraction.
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Aggressive men do far better with women than passive men.
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