Top 10 Traits
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Learn: To do new things. Add some adventure and excitement into your life. Millions of people want to strap on a life-jacket and brave the white water rapids, but few actually do. So move out of your comfort zone and get your adrenaline pumping.
Appreciative
A woman doesn't want to be fawned over for every thing she does, but she does want you to appreciate the little things. When a woman cuts the grass, does the dishes or takes out the trash, all she needs is a "thanks" and a kiss on the cheek.
But when she does something outside the realm of everyday chores and expectations, she expects you to notice. If she put on her best dress for your dreaded staff party, reward her with a flirtatious wink from across the room, then whisper something seductive in her ear as you walk past.
Not everyone is willing to make the effort. So if she goes beyond the ordinary, appreciate her effort and you'll find her doing it again and again.
Learn: To reward her effort. Life is all about the little things. When someone goes out of their way to make your life a little better, be sure to show them you appreciate it. If you do, they'll often do it again.
Honest
Honesty is always the best policy. Strong, confident men aren't afraid to be completely honest. If it isn't working out they don't lie to themselves or their partner. They accept it.
Relationships, however big or small, are built on trust. If you shatter that trust, you might never be able to put it back together. This is why men who try to be something they aren't, are always doomed to failure.
Smart men don't try to hide the fact they are bothered by something. Women can sense when something is wrong, so don't lie about your feelings. Just take time to observe your feelings and find the best way to express them.
Learn: To tell the truth. Be honest with yourself about your relationships. If something is bothering you, speak up and talk about it.
Humorous
Men don't need to be stand-up comedian or have a show on Comedy Central to be considered funny. All you need to be able to do is make the occasional joke or provide a humorous comeback if someone's hassling you.
Being funny isn't that difficult, but it is a very powerful tool to impress women. Women always list humor as one of the most attractive traits a man can have. And nothing wins the friends of women over faster than a witty comeback.
If you roast someone with an unexpected and funny comeback, you'll immediately be accepted into the fold. Better yet, using humor to spar with a woman is one of the best ways to ramp up sexual tension and spark attraction.
Learn: To laugh. It doesn't matter if it's at yourself or someone else. Laughing feels good. It's great for bonding. Just make sure you're viewed as funny and not the half-time entertainment.
Cool under fire
Women want a man who can handle any social situation that comes up. A man who doesn't get rattled by difficult people, places or situations. Men that know how to keep a bad situation from escalating into something worse, make life a lot easier for women.
If a jerk comes up and says something idiotic to her, a man who's cool under fire simply rolls his eyes and laughs or offers some advice on how the jerk can improve his social skills. A smart man can instantly diffuse a bad situation. What he doesn't do is make a scene or start a fight.
Women judge how a man reacts under stressful situations - especially when she doesn't know a lot about him. Showing poorly in one of these situations can cost you a date or even a relationship. So keep your head and stay cool.
Learn: To take it easy. Nothing is worse than being out with a man that flies off the handle at the smallest situation or inconvenience. Treat everyone around you with courtesy and respect and you'll find yourself with few worries or problems.
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Laughter can highten attraction and create sexual tension.
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Keep humor light-hearted and fun. As a rule, the person who's at the butt of the joke should be able to laugh at it too. Never mistake cruelty for humor. Never let a joke at your expense turn into a rant about what a loser the jokester is. Fight funny with funny, even if you have to wait for your chance to strike back. - allstardatingtips.com |
