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Aggression gives women two major advantages. The first is that they are more noticeable. An aggressive woman isn't afraid to make sure men are aware of her presence and has no fear of approaching. The second is aggressive women are more genuine because they don't fear the other person's view of them. Their words hold more weight because they're not censored, they're from the heart.
Just know there is an art to aggression. An overly-aggressive woman will come off abrasive and needy. It should be a muted aggression built on calm and cool. If a woman doesn't show she needs the man's attention, odds are she'll get it.
Learn: To have no fear. Flaunt your fearlessness, ambition and passion. Make people take notice of your presence. Approach women you're interested in. Don't be afraid to step out of the shadows, take up some space and be seen.
Unpredictability
Men are attracted to women they can't control or predict. They obsess over the women who flirt, give them attention, and then don't feel the need to talk the next day. The lack of availability creates mystery and intrigue. They assume she's seeing other men and will try that much harder to earn more of her time.
A kitten never tires of chasing a string that's just out of reach, but once it has the string in its clutches, it quickly loses interest. Men, to some degree, are like the kitten. They love the chase, the thrill of the hunt. So don't drop the string. Always keep them guessing.
As a relationship evolves into something more serious, a woman will have to make herself more available. Yet she should always maintain an element of unpredictability. If a man knows there's a chance - no matter how slim - his girlfriend is at home dressed in lingerie, odds are he won't be working as many late nights.
Learn: To break from routine. Predictability kills passion. Keep him guessing by giving him different levels of attention, not spending all your time with him, and always taking him to different places. Just being able to daydream about where you're going to take him is exciting for men.
Independent
An independent woman doesn't lose touch with her own life, friends and interests when dating a man. She will view him as a welcome addition to her world, but not her entire world. Independent women have busy lives. They aren't going to clear their entire schedule to accommodate a man.
Refusing to drop everything for a man will actually impress him more than clearing your schedule to accommodate him. By keeping dates with friends and continuing hobbies, a woman shows that she's loyal, doesn't need to be entertained all the time and has various options to keep her busy.
By being independent, a woman shows she's not needy or clingy - a common mistake made by women. It also forces a man to offer her something more attractive than her other options. This leads to him taking you out to the ballet, instead of the ball game.
Learn: To love your life. Going out with someone new doesn't mean you should stop shopping with the girls or coaching kids at the YMCA. Enjoy a rich life outside of your relationships. The more enjoyable your life is, the more attractive you'll be to men.
Adventurous
Adventurous women a mix use a mix of adrenaline and psychology to attract men. Men have an automatic bonding system that kicks into gear when they have an adventure with another person. By suggesting to do something extreme, adventurous, unusual or even dangerous, a woman can create an immediate and lasting bond between her and a man.
You don't have to jump out of a plane to be adventurous or exciting. If someone is used to the bowling alley, taking them to the go carts is going to be an adventure. Know their level of adventure. Skiing, rollerblading, skating, hiking, biking and white-water rafting all provide a pulse-pounding good time.
Adventure dates are not only a lot of fun, but they provide you with amazing stories to help attract other dates. An added bonus is your adventure partner transfers the excitement into seeing you as more exciting, fun and sexy. So feel free to use white water, steep cliffs and open skies to increase his attraction.
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Aggressive women do far better with men than passive women.
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