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Learn: To do new things. Add some adventure and excitement into your life. Millions of people want to strap on a life-jacket and brave raging white water rapids, but few actually do. So move out of your comfort zone and get your adrenaline pumping.
Appreciative
A man doesn't want to be fawned over for every thing he does, but he does want you to appreciate the little things. When a man cuts the grass, does the dishes or takes out the trash, all he needs is a "thanks" and a kiss on the cheek.
But when he does something outside the realm of everyday chores and expectations, he expects you to notice. If he has a warm bubble bath waiting for you after an especially tough day at the office, reward him with a seductive striptease before pulling him in the tub with you.
Not everyone is willing to make an extra effort. So if he goes beyond the ordinary, appreciate his effort and you'll find him doing it again and again.
Learn: To reward his effort. Life is all about the little things. When someone goes out of their way to make your life a little better be sure to show them you appreciate it. If you do, they'll often do it again.
Honest
Honesty is always the best policy. Strong, confident women aren't afraid to be completely honest. If it isn't working out, they don't lie to themselves or their partner. They accept it.
Relationships, however big or small are built on trust. If you shatter that trust, you might never be able to put it back together. This is women who try to be something they aren't, are always doomed to failure.
Smart women don't try to hide the fact they are bothered by something. Men can sense when something is wrong, so don't lie about your feelings. Just take time to observe your feelings and find the best way to express them.
Learn: To tell the truth. Be honest with yourself about your relationships. If something is bothering you, speak up and talk about it.
Humorous
Women don't need to be stand-up comedian or have a show on Comedy Central to be considered funny. All you need to be able to do is make the occasional joke or provide a humorous comeback if someone's hassling you.
Being funny isn't that difficult, but it is a very powerful tool to impress women. Men always list humor as one of the most attractive traits a woman can have. And nothing wins their friends over faster than a witty comeback.
If you roast someone with an unexpected and funny comeback, you'll immediately be accepted into the fold. Better yet, using humor to spar with a man is one of the best ways to ramp up sexual tension and spark attraction.
Learn: To laugh. It doesn't matter if it's at yourself or someone else. Laughing feels good. It's great for bonding. Just make sure you're viewed as funny and not the half-time entertainment.
Cool under fire
Men want a woman who can handle any social situation that comes up. Someone who doesn't get rattled by difficult people, places or situations. Women that know how to keep a bad situation from escalating into something worse make life a lot easier for men.
If a jerk comes up and says something idiotic to her, a woman who's cool under fire simply rolls her eyes and gives the jerk a look of pity or explains how he can improve his social skills. A smart woman can instantly diffuse a bad situation. What she doesn't do is make a scene or start a fight.
Men judge how a woman reacts under stressful situations - especially when he doesn't know a lot about her. Showing poorly in one of these situations can cost you a date or even a relationship. So keep calm and stay cool.
Learn: To take is easy. Nothing is worse than being out with a woman that flies off the handle at the smallest situation or inconvenience. Treat everyone around you with courtesy and respect and you'll find yourself with few worries or problems.
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Laughter can highten attraction and create sexual tension.
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Keep humor light-hearted and fun. As a rule the person who's at the butt of the joke should be able to laugh at it too. Never mistake cruelty for humor. Never let a joke at your expense turns into a rant about what a loser the jokester is. Fight funny with funny, even if you have to wait for your revenge. - allstardatingtips.com |
